KYLE’S B&B: Latest News & Random Thoughts

October 28, 2004

Hometown Book-Signing On Long Island

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I think I was more nervous about this book-signing appearance than any of the others. Facing a hometown crowd should be easy…I knew a lot of people there would be my friends and would be supportive. But I also knew if things went badly, it would be extra embarrassing to be humiliated in front of people I see on a regular basis. Of course, what could’ve really gone so “badly” as to humiliate me for all time? Well, a small turn-out in my hometown would certainly be bad. It didn’t help matters that there was a Same Sex Wedding Expo happening at the Thatched Cottage in Centerport on the same night as my book signing at Book Revue in Huntington. And they were even having a book-signing there with a nationally known same-sex marriage expert! Great: competing gay book-signings on the same night 15 minutes away from each other. At least the World Series was over, so I wasn’t competing with the Red Sox first World Series win in 86 years. With all of this, I faced the evening with a good deal of trepidation; thank God, it all went magnificently. A nice crowd showed up, many faces I knew….from my past, co-workers, friends….and also, readers of the comic strip whom I’d never met in person. It was a true thrill, a warmly supportive crowd, as I’d hoped, and it all went marvelously. Thank you to everyone who showed up and made it a brilliant evening! (And a big thank you to my friends from the bookstore, who took me out to dinner before the book-signing, at Canterbury Ales, the medieval-themed restaurant/bar across the street from Book Revue, for a fun, rollicking, laughter-inducing meal!).

October 14, 2004

Exploring Northampton, and back to New York, (with a stop in New Britain)!

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I have an extraordinary breakfast at the B&B I’m staying at, McKinley House B&B, and a nice long talk with the co-owner Ramses. Then I’m off to explore the exquisite town of Northampton. Mark, the owner of Pride & Joy Bookshop, where I did the book-signing last night, has told me all about this great town. I’d heard it was a big lesbian town, but Mark assured me the gay male population is growing now, too. ( And judging by those very handsome and thoughtful guys at my book-signing the previous night, this town has quite a fine selection of potential husbands!). The town is great….full of art galleries, several bookshops, live music venues. A pretty Main Street bustling with activity. Like Burlington, another college town….and also, like Burlington, more than just a college town. I wish that I had more time to explore; I vow to come back again. Let me put in a plug for Mark’s great store, Pride & Joy Bookshop & Gifts, that features not only a great gay book selection, but a spectacular collection of gay-themed T-shirts, Bumper Stickers, Buttons, DVDs, magazines, and many other unique gift items. (He’s also got some signed copies of the Kyle’s B&B book now, too, so you can contact him to mail order one, if you’d like!). I’m grateful to Mark, and his partner, Steve, for their hospitality. I leave mid-afternoon for NY, but I realize by the time I hit Hartford, CT, that I’m going to not only get stuck in rush hour NY traffic but rush hour CT traffic. So instead of crawling home from CT in stop-and-go bumper to bumper traffic at 10 mph, I make the decision to stop for a couple of hours where I am and travel by night, when there’s no traffic. Bizarrely enough, I’m in New Britain, CT, where Brad from Kyle’s B&B recently spent his summer on a minor league baseball team! So, I spend a couple of hours in New Britain, and then I’m off to Long Island under much better travel conditions, (save for the slashing rain which intermittently assails the highways on my journey. But, hey, I’m glad it held out ‘til now, as opposed to while I was up in VT or MA). I arrive home on Long Island at about 10:00 pm….weary from traveling, but so very grateful for the spectacular time I had. And my head full of questions about the future: Vermont? Northampton? This story is unfinished!

October 13, 2004

Mountains of Vermont, and Hello, Northampton!

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Leaving Burlington after too brief a stay. I resolve to come back here and see more. And soon, I hope. It’s a gorgeous day, again….temps in the low 60s, not a cloud in the sky. My plan now is to drive south to Northampton on Route 100, which is a less traveled road than the interstate highway, I-89. Route 100 goes down the center of the state, as do the mountains, so this is one mountainous, twisting, but gorgeous foliage-filled journey. (To be fair, though, the interstate highway, which I travel on for a while to reach Route 100, has some equally gorgeous, foliage-filled views). Route 100 is amazing, though. A stunning ride up & down a winding, mountainous, blazing-with-foliage trail. It does take longer to travel than the interstate, though, and I’m concerned about arriving later than I’d planned in Northampton. The book signing’s at 7:00 pm, but I’d hoped to arrive around 4:00 pm to check in at the B&B I’m staying at, and maybe explore the town a bit. As it turns out, I get there at 5:30 pm; still well in advance of the book-signing, but not enough time to have dinner with Mark, the handsome owner of Pride & Joy Bookshop, as we had planned. Mark is very friendly, his shop is amazing, and after a quick check in at the B&B, I’m back for the book discussion and signing. I have some stiff competition tonight, from not only the 3rd Bush/Kerry debate, but also the Red Sox/Yankees playoff game. Luckily, though, a nice group of people show up and it’s a wonderful night. Thank you to everyone who came, and who bought the book and told me such kind words about the comic strip. (And I do get to have dinner with Mark, after the book-signing, at a really nice Northampton Chinese restaurant).

October 12, 2004

Burlington, Vermont, Up Close & Personal!

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So, this is the place I’ve been hearing good things about for so long. I leave my motel early morning to explore the city. First, though, I’m awed by the view out of my motel window, which I didn’t know existed when I arrived in the dark of night the previous evening. A gorgeous, westward view of Lake Champlain, and the mountains beyond it, all covered in a patchwork of the autumn shades: red, orange, yellow & green. You can see blue skies over the mountains to the west, but gray skies cover Burlington, and an icy cold wind is blowing harshly across the city, not exactly welcoming me. The weather forecast calls for the clouds to burn off by afternoon and temps to rise, but I’m not so sure. As I drive towards the city from my motel on the outskirts, it seems less of a city than, say, a large town. Which is fine with me. I park near what is probably the tourist hub, the Church Street market place, about 5 or 6 city blocks that have been closed off to traffic and feature an open air pedestrian mall with lots of interesting shops. I’m intrigued by all this as I walk around, but it is colder than I’d imagined it would be. Everyone walking around looks like they’re a bit put off by the cold. Luckily, I’m dressed for it. Burlington is a college town; there are 3 pretty large universities right in the city limits. There do seem to be a lot of college kids roaming around, but luckily, I don’t feel as if I’m the only person over 25 in the area. I visit several book stores along the route, also some touristy shops. I chat with a very friendly & helpful bookseller at the Borders bookstore who’s quite interested in Kyle’s B&B. Then I explore more of the city beyond Church Street. Down to the waterfront to see the lakeside mountain views up close. Gorgeous, but here on the water that icy wind is at it’s most ferocious. I walk back up the hilly streets to explore some more, ( I love the hills, and they remind me of 2 of my favorite places….Geneseo, where I went to college, and San Francisco. Both those places were also notable for their, at times, icy winds!). I pass by the city’s lone gay bar, 135 Pearl Street, and plan on stopping by later. Even though I’m not much of a gay bar person, I figure I should go there to make some contact with the city’s gay community. Because, in the back of my mind this whole time, is the thought, “could I live here?”. It’s been sort of a dream of mine for a while to move up north to Vermont, and now that I’m here, I need to find out what it’s like for gay people who live here. I find 2 large, fantastic health food stores, one that’s right near the Church Street market place, and I’m in heaven looking at their selections. By mid-afternoon…surprise! The clouds have burned away, the sky is that crystal Vermont blue again, and the temps are now in the 60s and the wind has died down. It’s a new day. The streets now seem to be more bustling with smiling people. I return to the waterfront for the beautiful sunset over the mountains. The weather now is much more welcoming; I barely need a jacket. After a late dinner, I head over to the gay bar, 135 Pearl Street. It’s an upstairs bar, small, with a pool table room in the back. The bartender and 4 patrons all seem to know each other, and they invite me to join them. They’re quite friendly, and are glad to answer my questions about life in Burlington. None of them were born & raised in VT…seems that many locals are transplants from all over the USA and beyond. They assure me the bar does get a lot more crowded on weekends, (I believe them; I mean, Tuesday nights are not a big gay bar night in any state in the union, as far as I know). I don’t stay too long, as I need to leave early the next morning for Northampton. But as I walk down the gently sloping Church Street market place back to my car, I do have a warm feeling about this whole place.

October 11, 2004

Arrived Tonight in Burlington, Vermont

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My book-signing in Northampton, MA, is on Wednesday, so I took this opportunity to venture up north to Vermont for a couple of days. I think I’ve had this romantic fascination with VT for a very long time now. My family vacationed here several times when I was a little kid, but I haven’t been back since I was about 12 or 13. I love the season of Fall, the changing leaves and all that, and VT is, like, the world-wide Olympic level champion place to experience Fall, bar none. I probably don’t need to describe what the mountains and forests all look like, aglow with those burning, almost fluorescent reds, the brilliant yellows, the flaming oranges, set against a crystal blue VT sky. You’ve seen the postcards and photo-books of VT; you know what it looks like. But let me just say, when you see it live and in person, it’s practically a spiritual experience. I happen to be here as the foliage is just reaching its peak colors. Wow! Magnificent. It’s not just the Fall colors that draw me here, though. It’s the whole package of this gorgeous state. The open, unspoiled spaces, the progressive attitude of many who live here, the abundance of earth-friendly businesses like 7th Generation, the fact that my great artistic influence Norman Rockwell lived here and loved it for an important chunk of his life. The dairy cows, the red barns, the maple syrup. Oh, yeah, and this was the first state in America to legalize civil unions for gay people! I’ve heard Burlington is the crown jewel; an amazing, progressive, beautiful small city. I don’t know anyone who lives here, so I’m on my own to explore this place. Tomorrow, though, as it’s now nightfall and it’s been a long day of travelling.

October 10, 2004

Greg Fox Appearing In Northampton, Mass. On 10/13/2004

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Yeah, I’m kicking off my book signing tour with this appearance at Pride & Joy Bookshop in Northampton, Massachusetts. So, anyone in the New England area, come on down, (or up, or over), and meet me in person as I discuss & sign copies of the Kyle’s B&B book. This takes place on Wednesday, Oct. 13th, 2004 at 7:00 pm. Click here for the bookstore’s website, for directions and stuff. Or call (413) 585-0683. Hope to see you there!

October 6, 2004

New Greg Fox Interview at “Out In America”

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There’s a fun new interview with me at the Out in America cities network websites this month. I talk about the comic strip, the book, and all kinds of other stuff. You can read it by clicking here. And thanks, to Derrik Chinn, at Out in America, for doing the interview!

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